Why do some people tell the girl I like that I don’t like her when I do like her?

b) the former female “friends” were insulting my appearance (thinking my sister knew something about me, maybe that my kindness was actually a sign of me being a pushover in reality); They were all female narcissists so that’s why I wasn’t friends with them anymore. I’m allergic to narcs as someone with a lot of empathy.

I also taught them the truth: my sister’s photograph is ME! (I proved it too, how she switched us around appearance-wise). At this point this villain shut up but then he continued later again once he noticed the boys still stalking me. He also has a son about the boys’ age.

I found out 10 years later after going back on social media to see what these people I used to know in Uni were doing that they were all lying about my physical appearance. Something like 60% of them were lying, the other 40% were gone or disinterested/being quiet.

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But not on the seduction level or whatever…

So this man is trying to convince others that I am NOT hot, that I am NOT good-looking, but my sister is, okay? And she captured their attention, NOT I!

c) and this concerns you…weirdest thing happened! The male lecturers were lying about my appearance…they were very involved with this! The one that had a crush on me was keeping mum about it (and yet calling me his x, which I never was…WTF) but the one that I never really talked to (who is gay) was actively lying about me.

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What was his problem? So apparently he noticed the effect my appearance had on a few boys (he didn’t know half of it, there were plenty more he didn’t know about) and the jealousy of the women so…he wanted to be a villain about it! He posted stuff about how I need to exercise and I’m fat and ugly. And about how my sister was in the right to switch places physical appearance-wise.

I can only share from my own experience and it might be revelatory for you, I don’t know.

a) my sister was pretending to have my appearance (like a ho) and lied to everyone I look like her with her physical flaws

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But the truth? It’s usually that their lives are really miserable and misery loves company. They want your miserable company. Don’t let them get in the way of your happiness.

So what’s the lesson? WHO are the people telling the girl that you don’t like her? Foes or friends? Liars in these matters of the heart and romance are usually foes by default in my experience. There is no reason to get in the way of YOUR romance. The worst excuse they could come up with is that…they’re trying to spare your feelings. The 2nd worst excuse is that they just want a shot with her.

But this 60% were doing this:

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….And I’m just like…I have a lot of experience with this since high school, I kind of knew this was going to happen but I was kind of hoping it won’t (boys that I used to know stalking me). Of course, it’s not a headshot of my sibling that they’re interested in: they don’t know her, they almost know me.

This man doesn’t know anything, at all! But he is jealous beyond belief! I don’t know when his jealousy of me started but I know: 1) he’s gay 2) he’s a total villain morally-speaking 3) he puts 0 effort in teaching as a lecturer 4) he doesn’t encourage intelligence 5) he’s somewhat ugly and can’t take pictures of himself because his skin stands out to him too much, so he blurs his skin on camera in a noticeable fashion 6) he’s an official photographer with an official photography website and courses for it 7) he has “reminded” the younger boys that I must have been fat and I need to exercise…through social media. And that’s why my sister’s vendetta happened (because I lied and insulted HER);…First of all, I never lied about her appearance and I’ve never insulted her and secondly, she’s always been very fat and she hated me so much she photoshopped pictures to make me look like her! All fat and ugly. She wasn’t a revolutionary by insulting meek me, she was a bitch. An obvious one. But this man wants to describe things in a way in which I’m put in a bad light no matter what! But the younger boys never once believed him…non of them do. Only 2 stupid boys I never knew implied it and then they changed their minds recently. These 2 boys though are obsessed with me! 8) He saw my corporate details on Google and that seems to have triggered his public vendetta of me. He couldn’t believe someone who he didn’t even know, who he dismissed as insignificant had a company and a capital! 9) Either it was this or actually hearing my sibling on YouTube for her University video and realising that she sounds much dumber than I ever did. And also that she doesn’t look like her fake photography that is actually me face-wise. 10) He’s a vegetarian so he’s pretty ugly and with a visible skeleton at this point from not having eaten protein. Yet he thinks he’s fit. Then I showed up recently with muscles and a protein-inclusive diet and I shut him up on this level. After years of insults at my expense apparently.

He still can’t believe and still exclaims it obsessively that I am NOT the one that the boys like, they like the one picture of my sister that is actually me…that’s why they’re stalking…ME still! (not her, they’ve never once spoken to her)

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So…I’m a pretty woman generally-speaking but I’m not the type that shares photography on social media (you know, like taking selfies).

Of course I had done nothing wrong but completely overtake the imagination and the memories of these random boys. I didn’t mean to, it just happened because they got curious about all the hatred surrounding my appearance and how it’s coming from girls specifically.

He lost his shit. Or he’s revealing his true colours: he’s green with envy.

Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support. I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized. he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that. he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened. he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence. i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction. after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly. things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it. we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe … our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far? this has upset me so much its hard to even function.